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Welcome to Elust 88

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #89 Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Heart stabbing

Redemption: The Sex Goddess Project

Exhibitionish

 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

An Open Letter To That Cunnilingus Post

I Found Myself Over His Knee

 

 

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Writing Sex Scenes With Less Cissexism, Pt 1

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 

Erotic Fiction

Overlook
The Haunting of Iris Day
MERMAID??? Wicked Wednesday #229
Fear, Scents and Sounds
Lady Amore
love is love
Spray
Her Struggle
The New Principal

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Evolving Landscapes
Trust in Me
15 BEST Things About Giving Blowjobs!
With a rebel yell
What lie do you need to hear so we can Fuck?

Erotic Non-Fiction

The Brush
Tasked with asking for what I need
How Old Is Too Old For Wild Lovemaking?
Brass In Pocket
An Unstated Predicament
California Cuisine
Krystal’s First Pegging
Struggling

 

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

That Adult Bookstore Just Outside Town
Creature of the night
MISTRESS IN A DRESS – or out of it
Come Here. I want to Taste You
Terror of the cane! How to make caning sexy

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

11 Signs You Might Be a Side Guy

 

Writing About Writing

Writing Sex Scenes With Less Cissexism, Pt 1

 

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miss-scarlett-header
Photo courtesy of Miss Scarlet Writes

Welcome to Elust 88

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #89 Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Heart stabbing

Redemption: The Sex Goddess Project

Exhibitionish

 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

An Open Letter To That Cunnilingus Post

I Found Myself Over His Knee

 

 

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Writing Sex Scenes With Less Cissexism, Pt 1

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 

Erotic Fiction

Overlook
The Haunting of Iris Day
MERMAID??? Wicked Wednesday #229
Fear, Scents and Sounds
Lady Amore
love is love
Spray
Her Struggle
The New Principal

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Evolving Landscapes
Trust in Me
15 BEST Things About Giving Blowjobs!
With a rebel yell
What lie do you need to hear so we can Fuck?

Erotic Non-Fiction

The Brush
Tasked with asking for what I need
How Old Is Too Old For Wild Lovemaking?
Brass In Pocket
An Unstated Predicament
California Cuisine
Krystal’s First Pegging
Struggling

 

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

That Adult Bookstore Just Outside Town
Creature of the night
MISTRESS IN A DRESS – or out of it
Come Here. I want to Taste You
Terror of the cane! How to make caning sexy

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

11 Signs You Might Be a Side Guy

 

Writing About Writing

Writing Sex Scenes With Less Cissexism, Pt 1

 

ELust Site BadgeElust 88
Photo courtesy of Miss Scarlet Writes
Welcome to Elust 88–
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #89 Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
Heart stabbing
Redemption: The Sex Goddess Project
Exhibitionish

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
An Open Letter To That Cunnilingus Post
I Found Myself Over His Knee

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~
Writing Sex Scenes With Less Cissexism, Pt 1
*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Fiction
Overlook
The Haunting of Iris Day
MERMAID??? Wicked Wednesday #229
Fear, Scents and Sounds
Lady Amore
love is love
Spray
Her Struggle
The New Principal
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Evolving Landscapes
Trust in Me
15 BEST Things About Giving Blowjobs!
With a rebel yell
What lie do you need to hear so we can Fuck?
Erotic Non-Fiction
The Brush
Tasked with asking for what I need
How Old Is Too Old For Wild Lovemaking?
Brass In Pocket
An Unstated Predicament
California Cuisine
Krystal’s First Pegging
Struggling

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
That Adult Bookstore Just Outside Town
Creature of the night
MISTRESS IN A DRESS – or out of it
Come Here. I want to Taste You
Terror of the cane! How to make caning sexy
Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor
11 Signs You Might Be a Side Guy

Writing About Writing
Writing Sex Scenes With Less Cissexism, Pt 1

 

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it was warm at first. I remember that much. an overwhelming …oh that’s a big word. hehe. an over…over something. I forgot what I was saying. it used to be warm. it’s not anymore. I think I’m going away somewhere. is my dick hard. of course it is. let it enjoy itself. I think I already left.

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Five Things I’m Thankful For…sexually

It’s the day after Thanksgiving and me and my faithful pup Lili are pulling another 12 hour shift.we spent our Thanksgiving here at the porn store.  While I’m not exactly thankful for this I am glad I have this job and that I can bring Lili into work with me when my partner is out of town like he is now for Thanksgiving.

What else am I thankful for…sexually?

I’m Thankful for…

1. The internet.

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Anonymous, or semi anonymous sex was fairly easy to find as a gay man, at least since the 1970’s. I could go to a bathhouse, a bar or an adult bookstore like the one I am writing from. But with the rise of  the internet, which became a big part of the lives of most Americans during my early 20’s,  The hooking up landscape changed forever. First with chat rooms (gay.com) then hook up sites (manhunt was the first I remember) and now phone apps (grindr can tell me how many feet away the next person who might want to suck my cock is) hooking up has never been easier.

 2. PREP

 

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method to prevent H.I.V. that doesn’t involve condoms

Although it came too late for me, young gay men, old gay men, porn stars, sex workers, basically anyone in a high risk group who had insurance can take a pill a day and be about 99%  sure that they can Fuck all they want without a condom and not get H.I.V. Prep is the name for this new method of HIV prevention. That’s pretty fucking cool.

3.Young guys with Daddy issues.

th-10 The older I get the easier it seems it is for me to hook up. Sure there are tons of twinks who won’t hook up with anyone over 25, but there are plenty of hot young guys who are especially interested in men old enough to be their fathers or l grandfathers. Because i look younger than 41, I swear, I am not fully reaping the benefits of the guys with an absent father or pervert older , but  it’s something to look forward to.The idea that being gay at 40 is like being dead is no longer true.

4. The open relationship.

Before I met my man, the longest relationship I ever had was a month, maybe two. The second I started dating someone I was thinking of excuses for why we should break up. There were many reasons for this but the biggest one was my inability to be sexually monogamous. The thought of having one sexual partner for the rest of my life is truly terrifying. And unrealistic. It just wasn’t going to happen. I have a thing for anonymous sex. I’d rather not even exchange names in most cases. Putting me in a monogamous relationship is putting me in a situation where I will cheat. And even if I’m not cheating I will be suspicious that my partner is. Meet the crazy side of me who will check his phone, email, and question him constantly. Now I don’t have to do that. We trust each other not to fall in love with others and if we start to then we trust that the other well end things with that person. Cheating takes on a whole different meaning in this context and it is something I rarely worry about.As of August my fiance and I have been together a for as decade. Continue reading “Five Things I’m Thankful For…sexually”

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my fuck-it list

  1. have sex with twins.

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  1. have sex with triplets

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3.have sex with a hot well proportioned little person

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4.have sex at work

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5have sex at work with an audience

6.join the mile high club

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7.have sex at Disneyland. or Disneyworld

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8. make a dirty home porn that makes you notorious in certain sleazy parts of the internet

  1. have sex with a real father and son or real brothers where they do stuff with each other that would make Thanksgiving and other family get togethers very uncomfortable.

10.sex with a local celebrity

11.sex with a real celebrity

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  1. go to a real orgy. not a sex party with less than 10 people. not at a bathhouse with an audience. a real 20+member orgy

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13.have sex with my twin. being that I do not have a twin the best I can hope for is a look a like or a clone.

14.have sex with a porn star or porn actor. somebody who has been in a real professional porn.

15.have sex with porn star Damon Dogg who lives in my city

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16. get paid for sex

17.be a professional whore if only for a short time

18.appear in a Treasure Island or Damon Dogg produced porn

  1. sex in a graveyard

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  1. sex on the hood of a car somewhere public

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  1. sex on the street in public like at Folsom

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  1. have a naked pie fight that leads to sex in the naked pie fight mess

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  1. sex with a furry dressed as a furry

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24. clown sex

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  1. add more things to my fuck-it list until I have 69 things on my fuck-it list.

see the fuck-it list of other bloggers at wicked wedensday

CAUGHT! in a web of my own making

I originally posted this last Sunday until I realized it was prompt week and the prompt was about not using any words. being that this post is full of words i quickly posted something else. And then after America shamefully proved its own stupidity I changed the words a bit. the trap in my first draft was sex and drugs and I was the prey…but it’s different now….like I said I changed it a bit.

The spider spins its web and then sits back and admires its work. It doesn’t mean to brag, it thinks bragging is for those of questionable character like the new president, but this new trap is a work of unquestionable genius. It just is.

It’s experimented  with different webs, nothing like the ones it grew up making. It doesn’t think it’s mother would approve of its use of bait, but she wouldn’t have been able to argue with the results.

It creates a different web for each victim , which is easy once it knows  its victims weakness. It was far more ambitious this time. The bait for its masterpiece includes  anger, hate and fear. Make it all reek of money and ego and …BINGO. It’s prey discovers too late what it was leaping into with such enthusiasm. the spider made no attempt to disguise the web and it’s sinister purpose. The prey made its own choice. They made their own choices. They deserve what they get.

They won’t get out now

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I’ll tell whatever lie you need to hear so that we can Fuck

I’ll admit it. I’ll say just about anything in the pursuit of good sex. Once I’ve got you on my to do list until the moment I cum you shouldn’t believe a word that comes out of my mouth. My body lies as well.

Now let me walk that back a bit. I don’t lie about being in a relationship and I don’t lie about important shit like my HIV status. I’m upfront about stuff that really matters. But I have been known to play with the truth about everything else.

Let me give you a recent example. A very recent example.

A really hot dude with tattoo sleeves ( I think I could get hard for any guy covered in tattoos. Don’t even get me started on what a guy with a neck tattoo does for my boner) was in the store earlier and all i do is lie to him. This is the second time he has been in the store and I’ve had a lot of fun with him both times.

The first day he was here it just took about ten minutes of sexual chit-chat to figure out what his deal was. He is straight, or at least he identifies as straight, but when he gets high his inner deviant takes over. In his case his inner pervert is a girl named Amber who likes for me to treat him like a slut while she sucks my cock.

That’s not my thing, but I go along with it. Hell I took that ball and ran with it. He mentioned that  most gay dudes aren’t into pretending he is a girl. Which is probably true. Gay dudes aren’t into girls and they aren’t usually into guys wearing panties. (FYI It’s straight guys that have the panty fetish).

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I really wanted to get in some quality naked time with him and I saw a need that wasn’t being met so I filled it. I started telling him how hot i thought he would look in a pair of tight lacy panties. He responded very Favorably so I kept going with it. It wasn’t long before I was saying him what a hot bitch he was while he worshipped my cock.

I could totally talk about how wet his pussy was and suck on his hard “clit” because it was just dirty talk. I could talk about having sex with a woman because I was having sex with a man. I could even get into it if someday he showed up wearing those lacy panties ( but probably not if he was in full drag.) The point is I made him believe I was turned by treating him like a female when i was actually turned on by turning him on.

Do you need another example, because I’m going to give you one.

I hooked up with a real weirdo last Sunday night. He wasn’t like a nasty kink pig weirdo. He was an insecure uptight weirdo. He was a little older but he had a really nice body. He obviously worked on it.

He needed a lot of things. Everything had to be just so or it didn’t work for him. He was very vocal about his needs and insecurities. Normally I probably would have just left. Ain’t nobody got time for that. But I was horny and had come all the way downtown and I didn’t have my phone to arrange something else while I was in the area so I stayed. And I acted very patient because I knew he needed that in order for him to relax, and I needed him to relax so i could cum. I have a partner and a dog to get home to, I didn’t have all night.

He wanted to role play. His scenario was that he was a straight guy whose wife was at work and I catch him getting high and seduce him.He said he was able to relax better if he got into a character. If that was what he needed to move this along then seduce him I would.

Not to brag, but I was pretty good. At least I stayed in character. And I got the results I needed and left.

As soon as I cum all my other needs come flooding back.

I need to eat.

I need to sleep.

I need you to leave. Oh is this your place. I need to leave then.

I’m definitely done playing whatever game we were playing.

I’m done seducing you.

I’m no longer your little boy.

Or your sadistic kidnapper.

Or in love.

And I’m not changing your diaper before I go.

Once I get what I want the lies are over and I can suddenly be very honest if that’s what you need to hear.